well thanks for your reply, i tried all that..he didn't reply, it's been 5 months since we talked now.. i don't know anything :) and no, i do not love him, don't want to be anything more than friends. I deserve a lot better.
Like people said, give him his space, but don't go TOO LONG w/out contact! If it's been a month already, checking up on him would be a good idea. Just say "Hey, it's been a month since we've talked! I've been thinking about you. I just wanted to see…
Love Life you cannot make someone love you nor like you. If you do it will be a a short heart breaking time..
How are tho on your roller coaster ride I would recommend being obsessed with another man to take you mind off of this one.
thank you all for your very supportive messages, it's generous of you to take time out and provide comments here for support. He left me in August, so it's been around 6 months since we last ttalked n it is his bday soon., dont know if i will wish h…
"My relationships tend to end like that. I prefer to burn my bridges (often myself in the process) then rise up as someone entirely different and start again. I never look back."
Oh that SOOOO sounds like me. In fact I find that I push to burn brid…
I have this gut feeling like I should say something more here, but I'm not. This is entirely too close to my current situation right now. Again I'll defer to my favorite sex advice columnist, Dan Savage. (Can we embed you tube in a discussion?)
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I agree to this...I am SOOO thankful for my Cap Moon which can hide a lot of the emotion, and my Venus in the 11th which would only make me seem like a friend (really as far as my behavior the only thing is we won't have sex or kiss lol). So I know…
Can totally relate. I'm a cancer w/ gem rising (6/26) and he's an aquarius (2/11) w/ scorpio rising. We dated for about 4 years and then I ended it this past September, but you could tell it was mutual. we had tons of mini breakups and got back toge…
I was trying to add this lol...it actually ended up being the strangest breakup I've ever had.
He gave me reasons why we weren't compatible. Like I like astrology, I'm not serious enough, and not sarcastic enough (when the prior week where we got b…
Aww hun I really feel for you. I too am experiencing the same thing with an Aqua. We broke up after I made a (drunken admission that I loved him, etc and that I was tired of trying, and caring more in the relationship, or wondering if he was cheatin…
Sweety, hold your head up high and walk on....It's been about 6 months since my mr aqua disappeared, you just have to live with it. It gets better. Don't contact him, just disappear. If he wants to come back, be it in some weeks, months, years ..he…
@ Aquatic Bull and Vovi, do aquas really go back to that one girl, I've heard that they don't? Even after months and months of no contact, do they sometimes appear out of the blue?
Are aquarians likely to reappear after months of no contact? If he does I won't let it be a relationship, I don't want it to be anything more than friends, because I don't feel that way about him anymore. It's just that I wonder if we'll ever be fri…
I've gone way past that "calling him 30 times", which btw was not 30 times, it was about 3....it was exaggerated. With the emotional notes, I meant that I sent him a letter and an email just saying that I was sorry for whatever made him upset, and t…
Exactly as he asks. If you want to be with him you need to figure out what made you behave the way you did and work on that. Otherwise, you're just diving in for another round of the same. :/
A mind which is deeply observant does not get caught up in self-centred activities, and the mind is not observant if there is any action of condemnation or comparison. Comparison and condemnation do not bring understand-ing, rather they block understanding. To be aware is to observe - just to observe - without any self-identifying process. Such a mind is free of that hard core which is formed by self-centred activities