No, I don't think that was it. Men know that on VDay when they are dating someone, the ball is in their court. I don't think that was it newcomer, I think he is just in a phase of uncertainty.
Well, honestly that sounded like a bit of a canned response. I swear I do not work for the author of the "Venus and Mars on a Date" book but this is something he talks about. Men don't like having their questions thrown back at them. They love it wh…
Don't be offended this is something that MEN do, but especially Virgos. I wouldn't delete him off your phone, but your behavior will determine the rest of the relationship...
I strongly recommend the book "Venus and Mars on a Date." It REALLY opene…
Have you ever initiated a date with a man and had it result in a long term relationship? LIke somehow you made the 'light go off' in his said and he suddenly realized you were so great and special. in my experience.... no. They either want to date y…
How long have you been together exclusively? First, I would stop attempting to make excuses for him. If he wanted desperately to get in contact with you, he would somehow. Sounds like he is just being a normal guy and wants a little breathing room.…
Nope. I am Leo rising and I have felt the exact opposite way during the rx. I am not giving a second thought to sex right now, where usually I am very sexually charged.
Sun in Aries, Leo rising, Moon in Aquarius, Venus in Taurus, Mars in Aquarius. My progressed ASC just went into Virgo, and I'm feeling it! Other than that, I'm a first year grad student studying historic preservation in New Orleans.
Relationship Status
Single
I easily fall for
Taurus, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces
My Favorite Things
Archaeology, anthropology, old buildings, bookstores, walking outside, rosaries (even though I'm not Catholic), all kinds of music, photography, animals, astrology, star gazing...
My level of astrological knowledge
Intermediate (planets/houses/aspects)
Which aspect in your chart causes you the most grief?
Sun square Saturn, Moon square Venus, Moon in 7th house
Which aspect in your chart helps you the most?
Singleton planet Venus in Taurus, Sun in its joy in 9th, Moon in 7th house
With my recent difficult transits, especially with Neptune in the anaretic degrees of my 7th and squaring my Venus, I knew that I needed to be extra careful if I were going to re-enter the dating field. Some might advise me not to do at all for a while, but I figure we only live… Continue
if he's insecure or highly sensitive to rejection (hey we all are, aren't we?) then even a perfect excuse can lead to self-doubt. i also think because you told him to get in contact with you the next time he's in town it still seems like a brush off. if you suggested a specific time/date/whatever for the next round then that would help things but you threw it back to him making it seem like a brush off. you turned him down but then you still ask him to carry the burden. i'd email him or something while he's in town and you're out of town just to make him know you thought of him.
misskitty, hey i read your thread and first i must say yes i wholeheartedly agree with you about guys not going for it or not pursuing you in a "normal" bold way. it's like they'll do 99% but that final 1% of being direct about their intentions...it's all on you to finish it off. and to me the situation comes off very neutral/friend-like. but if you meant more and he meant more then your response seemed like a brush off...contd...
hey misskitty,
thanks for the msg. just glad to hear you're still kicking around this board :)
look forward to hearing from you. summer's been...let's say it's been a very cruel latter summer for me. but i'm still standing :)
hey hey hey misskitty,
long time no hear. just checking in to see if everything's going okay with you. hope you had a nice 4th of july holidy in the states! :)
hey missk,
glad to hear from you. i spent easter with my family as well! oh sorry i didn't imply that he was crazy :p he just needs some help with SOMETHING...maybe not cra-zay but definitely needs some sort of assistance to understand what's right and what's not right. hope things are going well in new orleans!