Libra has lost me; now won't go away.
Disrespectful. That is seriously the only thing that comes to mind right now.
First, he decides to terminate our relationship during a very stressful weekend for me (fully knowing) that I was moving, had mid-terms, and was stressed out about having enough money to feed myself after paying rent and a deposit.
Second, he completely avoided me for an entire week and didn't even bother helping me move in as he had promised. In fact, he made it worse by texting me here and there absolutely stupid jokes and then not responding to me when I would make a comment on them.
Third, he removed all of our pictures from his Facebook then changed his status to 'Single'.
Now his status is back to 'In a Relationship', yet our photographs are not back up; but my phone is exploding with "I miss you darling.", "I love you so much." -- "When can I see my girl again?"; sending me picture messages of pictures of us, luckily I have been busy hanging out with my friends and keeping myself occupied.
Last night I was doing some stop animation with some co-workers. He proceeded to text me throughout the night about how shitty his night was going. I think my lack of response bugged him. He kept telling me how lonely he was and how much he missed me.
I'm too nice to bluntly state, "F*CK OFF"...because really that is how I am feeling right now. He lost me, he completely disrespected my feelings and my needs and left me to deal with everything on my own and now that his life is so stressful and shitty I'm supposed to drop everything for him. Screw that. Absolute bullshit. I don't even know how to handle this.
Is there anyway to make a Libra see how absolutely shitty they are being and make them see exactly why I am not talking to him any more? Because I have a feeling if I try to talk to him about it he will just blame it all on me again. I'm DONE DONE DONE DONE DONE with this piece of sh*t.
First, he decides to terminate our relationship during a very stressful weekend for me (fully knowing) that I was moving, had mid-terms, and was stressed out about having enough money to feed myself after paying rent and a deposit.
Second, he completely avoided me for an entire week and didn't even bother helping me move in as he had promised. In fact, he made it worse by texting me here and there absolutely stupid jokes and then not responding to me when I would make a comment on them.
Third, he removed all of our pictures from his Facebook then changed his status to 'Single'.
Now his status is back to 'In a Relationship', yet our photographs are not back up; but my phone is exploding with "I miss you darling.", "I love you so much." -- "When can I see my girl again?"; sending me picture messages of pictures of us, luckily I have been busy hanging out with my friends and keeping myself occupied.
Last night I was doing some stop animation with some co-workers. He proceeded to text me throughout the night about how shitty his night was going. I think my lack of response bugged him. He kept telling me how lonely he was and how much he missed me.
I'm too nice to bluntly state, "F*CK OFF"...because really that is how I am feeling right now. He lost me, he completely disrespected my feelings and my needs and left me to deal with everything on my own and now that his life is so stressful and shitty I'm supposed to drop everything for him. Screw that. Absolute bullshit. I don't even know how to handle this.
Is there anyway to make a Libra see how absolutely shitty they are being and make them see exactly why I am not talking to him any more? Because I have a feeling if I try to talk to him about it he will just blame it all on me again. I'm DONE DONE DONE DONE DONE with this piece of sh*t.
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Permalink Reply by Sarah on -
Is there anyway to make a Libra see how absolutely shitty they are being and make them see exactly why I am not talking to him any more? Because I have a feeling if I try to talk to him about it he will just blame it all on me again. I'm DONE DONE DONE DONE DONE with this piece of sh*t.
Yeah I can only advise to not even try to talk to him about it - we are never open to accepting our own faults unless there is enough reason and he seems to be a really big jackass so I wouldn't even worry about it if I were you.
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Permalink Reply by cornflower on -
If you are done with him, there is no point even wondering about it. Just move on and never contact or talk with him again. He will learn later on his own.
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Permalink Reply by Sarah on
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Oh and on a side note...I'm so proud that you decided to cut ties with him!
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Permalink Reply by Argentille on -
Yeah this weekend he begged to hang out, so I obliged to be nice. Things happened and it was stupid of me to play the part of the tool, but I did. When Monday hit he was a complete jerk...now he's refusing to talk to me. He used me and it's my own fault. I'm done. I'm calling the cops because he won't return me things and refuses to let me pick them up. This includes a $900 track bike amongst other things. Such bullshit. I'm staying away from those with Mercury in Scorpio.
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Permalink Reply by dormboyph on -
Hi, my ex gf 3 years ago is a LIbra too, and like you, my sun sign is taurus.
Yeah, same thing happened to me. Up to now, she still texting once in a while. Imagine, that's after 3 years already. I thought once Libran junked you, they will never go back again. But our case is different.
.. and it seems she doesn't know that im done with her.
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Permalink Reply by Sexy_Promethean on -
I thought once Libran junked you, they will never go back again.
Libras are indecisive. LOL!
That would be an Aries that will never go back after breaking it off. :)
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Permalink Reply by vovi on -
stop blaming Scorp! For God sake, I used to have a Libra boyfriend and I know how you feel.He was up and down, push and pull, controlling , indecisive and back stabber .However, I still forgave him and we talked sometimes as friends.
I'm not sure why every time things happened, people blame any planet in Scorp in the chart? I've many and I don't think I want to revenge anyone or stalk or do any cruel things?
Any time a revenge carried out, they'd say he/she must be a Scorp! In fact, Libra is much cruel with their unbalanced lives.They would dump it on others so often despite their charming appearance( just the unbalanced ones of course)
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Permalink Reply by Argentille on
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Do you know about the aspect of Mercury in Scorpio? Do some research; I never said that they were a Scorpio...simply that one of his aspects in Scorpio was causing the huge issues in our relationships. Him being an air sign didn't help either.
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Permalink Reply by Sexy_Promethean on
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They also blame Aries... *Shrug* Don't worry, I will give you Scorpios some lovings. LOL!
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Permalink Reply by Argentille on
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I think it's finally over, for now, until he grows the eff up...we got in a fight and he pretty much told me to get lost after I told him I couldn't handle his rages any more. Later that night he e-mailed me this:
"You know I still care and love you. Whether you chose to believe it or not. It wasn't just you, it was me. I just have so much on my plate right now I don't really have time for anyone and I promise this isn't about someone else. I don't want anyone else honestly. It's enough having to worry about what I am doing let alone another person. This is about me not having the ability to focus on anyone but myself while I try and straighten out my life. You're the only one for me...the only woman who accepts me for my geek-ness and obvious flaws. I've never been able to be myself with anyone and I hope we can have 'something' in the future, but for now it is unfair for me to stay with you and keep you on hold. I'm keeping my distance from you now; I'm getting new supplements to see if it is chemical, we will see soon. You drive me crazy, in both a good way and a bad way and we will see if it is just something that I need to work on rather than you being crazy, which I have fully convinced myself at this point. I know it's not true and that you truly care for me. I'm happy that you're in our family pictures and my family loves you and its so rare to have someone who loves my family in return no matter how crazy they are. You're perfect just please stay away from me until I learn to be a better man."
I read it this morning and was in tears. Ever since this change in his career and all of this stuff going on in his life; I did notice him getting more and more stressed out and short with me. I think I need to move on and if it's true; he'll come back and treat me how I deserve to be treated.
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