Do what I say
Me- leo
Him
-virgo
He tries to be so controlling. Where were you? And where did you go after that? It is kind of late to be getting home now, isn't it? I really will do what I want anyway.
But it seems that his last girlfriend cheated on him and I'm guessing that may be where it's coming from.
My other guess is insecurity. But I'm getting tired of it and I want it to become less questioning and not more. Has anyone turned the tables on their virgo man? How did that go for you all?
I dated a taurus before this and he and I gave each total freedom, so it is the opposite of this. I don't feel bad when he does it..but its unhealthy and it is time for it to stop.
I know virgos like to be dominant in a relationship. Maybe some scorpio advice?
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Permalink Reply by shea on -
yes this is insecurity and it does not help if he has been cheated on. reassure him that you are trustworthy and would never do that to him.
does he have any scorp in his chart?
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Permalink Reply by Debre Heassly on -
None, but I know scorp and virgo can be a good match sometimes. But the scorpions are keeping quiet
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Permalink Reply by Debre Heassly on
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Wow. To purposely break up with someone and then expect a good result from that! Games.
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Permalink Reply by sugarbomb on -
LOL. Sequence darling. No real thought behind it. I broke up with him because of X, got back together because of Z. In the meantime I was doing Y. Didnt really think about getting back together when we broke up, but I was intending to say ha! I am over you. Apparently I was wrong.
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Permalink Reply by antwan on -
That MF worked at night and I found out that before he would go to work, he would go to my car and take my spark plug wires out of the car, and take them to work with him, so I couldn't leave the house.... OMG was I PISSED!!!
that a good idea lol humm well i dated a leo b4 you guys are really flirty.. I could only handle it bc my mom is a leo and almost all the female in my family are so I know were you guys heart really is.. Unfortunately us virgo men hat flirty partners thats all I can tell u.. just turn down the flirt a lil..
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Permalink Reply by Lioness 8 on -
Yeah he thought so tooo,, Until I borrowed my mom's car and stayed out until 6AM... he he he LOL.....
The worse part about it was, I wasn't even going anywhere I was only going to go to the store to get something...
Plus I was at home with a baby under 1... But he was soooo worried about me leaving the house... I never gave him reason to worried he's just psycho like that!
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Permalink Reply by Debre Heassly on
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I'm not flirty at all. If I like a guy, I tell him. Being in a relationship, I wouldn't do that now.
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Permalink Reply by Sexy_Promethean on -
He tries to be so controlling. Where were you? And where did you go after that? It is kind of late to be getting home now, isn't it? I really will do what I want anyway.
I agree. If you don't want to be controlled, lay the rules down to him. Let him know that you are loyal and faithful and that you think it is healthy to have a life outside of the relationship? Or put it in your own words?
If his ex cheated on him, that is not your problem. My ex cheated on me, but I wouldn't put it on my girl. Tell him to get over it?
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Permalink Reply by Mary Kae on -
Has anyone turned the tables on their virgo man? How did that go for you all?
I didn't have your exact situation - the Virgo guy I dated was not especially jealous or possessive, but he did pick at me a lot about other stuff. Like any self-respecting Scorpio, I decided to (verbally) hit back. Bad idea. Generally speaking, Virgos pick at their partners because they're insecure with themselves. I don't know exactly what the psychology is, but for me it's always seemed like the more rotten the Virgo feels about him/herself, the more off-the-wall stuff they will find to dislike about you. So when you pick back at them, it's like this arms race of negativity starts. I've always come out of these situations feeling worse about myself, not just because of whatever the other person said to me, but because I don't like my own actions and behavior. You can win (maybe) but it might not be worth it.
I don't know if this helps, but I do have a Leo moon. I can really feel it kick in during these situations. My head knows that a far better way to deal with a Virgo who's feeling extra-picky is to just walk away and not engage until everyone's cooled down. But instinctively, the Leo in me has a really hard time disengaging sometimes.
This is only my experience, others may have different stories. If you're a Virgo and this doesn't apply to you, my apologies.
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Permalink Reply by bijou on -
Hmmm - as an Aqua, I hate feeling controlled or confined. I would not have an easy time with your situation either. However, I would try to lay down the law but I would also tell him that I will make an effort to tell him in advance what I'm up to before I go out, so he's not wondering where I am. I'd try to work it out.
If that didn't work then I'd start making up outrageous stories to tell him. Such as I joined the circus, or I stopped by the ATM and a bank robber took me hostage, or I ended up winning the lottery but I lost the ticket and spent the day looking for it.
If that didn't work, then I'd dump him.
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Permalink Reply by Lioness 8 on
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If that didn't work then I'd start making up outrageous stories to tell him. Such as I joined the circus, or I stopped by the ATM and a bank robber took me hostage, or I ended up winning the lottery but I lost the ticket and spent the day looking for it.
If that didn't work, then I'd dump him.
LMAO!!! OMG THAT WAS FUNNY! That Virgo will flip with those remarks!
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