A more in depth; Sagittarius look. Help!
Wow, so where do I begin? I've met an amazing guy, I posted a thread prior to this one with little information and so, I got little information back. I don't know why but I am in some big trouble from what I can tell in regards to this Sagittarius that I've started dating casually.
Here is his chart:
Sun in Sagittarius
Ascending in Sagittarius
Moon in Gemini
Mercury in Sagittarius
Venus in Sagittarius
Mars in Capricorn
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra
Lots of air in this one and I see a lot if instability; maybe more so...flaky or flightiness. Sagittarius is a mutable sign (better than cardinal), but this still raises concerns. I've done some reading and have learned that they really like freedom, happiness, optimism, and love to get out and do things. Things that I've been craving for sometime so this is probably why he has appealed so much to me.
I've tried to use my intellect to impress him, given him plenty of space, he still seems like he's deciding about me. He tells me that he sees himself with me and thinks I would be a great woman that he would love to fall in love with. Not sure if he would be in love with me or be in love with the idea of falling in love with me...sounds so confusing. He talks to me here and there. He even called me one night and asked me to call him up so he could talk to me. He told me the other day, "How does it feel to be so beautiful? I think I could tell you that every day for the rest of my life." -- I mean what?! I've only met him a handful of times.
He recently asked me to allow him to come over and watch a movie with me. He wanted to "cuddle" and "spend some time" with me. I of course had plans prior and had to decline. Ever since he's kind of been really flighty with me. He insists that he needs to see me this week just doesn't know when. Doesn't seem like a schedule applies to the Sagittarius. Any Sag women or men have any suggestions in regards to this? I just want this to be a fun dating experience I don't know yet about getting serious with him.
I have worked with Sag men, they've all been the outdoorsey type who love to travel and get things done. Most own their own businesses I noticed. But yeah. :) I really like him and love his ambition. He never fails to show me opportunities, he shows me how beautiful the world is with his pictures that he takes when he snowboards. On top of mountains. Geeze. I'd think he might get me off my Taurean butt and get me out and doing things which is something I WOULD LOVE TO DO. I'm just scared he'll wear me out and in turn I'll bore him.
Let me know. Advice?
Here is his chart:
Sun in Sagittarius
Ascending in Sagittarius
Moon in Gemini
Mercury in Sagittarius
Venus in Sagittarius
Mars in Capricorn
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra
Lots of air in this one and I see a lot if instability; maybe more so...flaky or flightiness. Sagittarius is a mutable sign (better than cardinal), but this still raises concerns. I've done some reading and have learned that they really like freedom, happiness, optimism, and love to get out and do things. Things that I've been craving for sometime so this is probably why he has appealed so much to me.
I've tried to use my intellect to impress him, given him plenty of space, he still seems like he's deciding about me. He tells me that he sees himself with me and thinks I would be a great woman that he would love to fall in love with. Not sure if he would be in love with me or be in love with the idea of falling in love with me...sounds so confusing. He talks to me here and there. He even called me one night and asked me to call him up so he could talk to me. He told me the other day, "How does it feel to be so beautiful? I think I could tell you that every day for the rest of my life." -- I mean what?! I've only met him a handful of times.
He recently asked me to allow him to come over and watch a movie with me. He wanted to "cuddle" and "spend some time" with me. I of course had plans prior and had to decline. Ever since he's kind of been really flighty with me. He insists that he needs to see me this week just doesn't know when. Doesn't seem like a schedule applies to the Sagittarius. Any Sag women or men have any suggestions in regards to this? I just want this to be a fun dating experience I don't know yet about getting serious with him.
I have worked with Sag men, they've all been the outdoorsey type who love to travel and get things done. Most own their own businesses I noticed. But yeah. :) I really like him and love his ambition. He never fails to show me opportunities, he shows me how beautiful the world is with his pictures that he takes when he snowboards. On top of mountains. Geeze. I'd think he might get me off my Taurean butt and get me out and doing things which is something I WOULD LOVE TO DO. I'm just scared he'll wear me out and in turn I'll bore him.
Let me know. Advice?
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Permalink Reply by cornflower on -
Hmm I'm the opposite a Gemini with a Sag moon. And I've been with a sag who has a Capricorn Venus and be sag mars. I'd say you should look very carefully to see if he is really what you want. Be yourself too, don't try and be what you think he will like. Sag men often are very breezy. Many times it's very hard (even for this Gemini) to pin them down. I would not try to put much expectation on it. So for now don't contact him too much, let him have his freedom. If he asks you out go for it, but you must let him chase. With all the sag men I've been with we ended up as friends. I think unless they are really ready they cannot settle down. They will probably be pretty flaky and they will say a lot of stuff that will sound too good to be true and it is if it's still in the beginning stages. Us sag/gem combos are pretty the most independent and restless of the whole zodiac. It's very hard to truly get us to commit, especially to one person. So don't push it, just let him take the lead. But I'd try and date other people at the same time. But don't let him know, just hint about it once or twice, but when you are with him be totally focused and into him. When he's not around just forget he exists. He might make a move then. Delete his number if he blows you off. Seriously. If he calls you back, just ask who he is. You will pretty much have to play a lot of games to get him. Push and pull. What is your chart like?
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Permalink Reply by MerDeNoms on -
The only real advice I would give you is to pay close attention to what he does and
not what he says. Sagittarius truly mean what they say AT THE TIME but things happen
feelings change(mutable)creatures we are lol. His Gemini-Moon is what's gonna give you
the most problems his feelings-emotions are dual in nature. You'll never know what guy
your relating to at any given time. Wow Taurus you sure you want this lol? It will be a fun
and exciting ride but it will be QUITE A RIDE to shack up your stable Tauren world. I don't
know the exact time frame you guys have been dating but if you know what you want out
of a relationship with him clearly tell him, to see if you two are on the same page. This will
save you precious time and energy if you want something from him that he can't deliver
I'm a Sagittarius dealing with a Taurus now. It's been a challenge and I've reached a
crossing with him as to whether to continue or just move on. I hope my 2 cents helped ; )
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Permalink Reply by cornflower on
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Yes, pay very close to his actions. Also like you said Gemini has a very dual nature. One side of us will think you are re most amazing person and the other can only see your faults. It's very hard to find a person who meets both side's needs. Everything else you are spot on. It will be a bumpy wild ride.;)
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Permalink Reply by Argentille on -
Here is my chart:
Asc in Leo
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Taurus
Venus in Gemini
Mars in Aquarius
Jupiter in Taurus
Saturn in Capricorn
Uranus in Capricorn
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
Lilith in Leo
Thank you for the well thought of input K and MerDeNoms;
Honestly speaking, I'm not looking for anything serious and I've been kind of making him chase me with the occasional, "Hey you should come do this with me!" - I send him pictures of things I know he'd like and things that I love. I've been trying to make this as casual as possible because I've never had a casual relationship and I wish I had done that more often. So this is my chance.
When he asked me what I wanted I stated, "Let's just see how things go. I'm not solid on what I am looking for presently I just want to be happy and in love with someone. The natural way. Let's see how this goes." -- he stated, "Well I am dedicated, a hopeless romantic, faithful and will never use or desert you...so if you decide to take me up on my offer, let me know." -- I've never been treated this way, and it makes me happy that I have this freedom in a way. Hmmm. I intend on letting things happen. I'm going to lessen my communication with him for the simple fact that I need to stop stressing about contacts so much.
I'm seeing life more clearly it's like a breath of fresh AIR.
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Permalink Reply by cornflower on
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Um what you are doing is not casual at all to me, LOL. Literally do nothing, make no advances or invitations. Sags love the chase especially the men. Definitely don't put any expectations. He doesn't seem ready for a relationship of any kind at all from his words. Watch his actions and see if he does pursue you. Are you sure you can really do casual? Because at this point I feel he is stringing you along.
There are also way too many squares in your chart. Doesn't seem to promising for anything more than a fling.
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Permalink Reply by MerDeNoms on
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Wow you got some earth going on there Lady Christine! What's coming out of
your mouth of wanting a "casual relationship" is not what your actions and the vibe
I'm getting off you is wanting. With all that earth I know there is a deep craving in you to
want to feel see taste the person you are involved with. I'm thinking maybe this is the
issue you are having with how much contact you two have. Your Venus-Gemini might
love the idea of the breeziness in the relationship and going with the flow but that Taurus
sun has to want some type of stability and "plan of action" in being in a relationship with
someone. I know my Taurus does and says nothing with out going over it a million times
and even then when he does make a move he analyzes the hell out of what he just did-
not very going with the flow at all.
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Permalink Reply by Argentille on
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So basically treat him like a friend. Gotcha. I'm guessing the relationship will be more friendship based than romantic...am I right?
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Permalink Reply by cornflower on
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Well, maybe from your perspective you should treat it as a friendship and view
It that way. Put still, don't invite him to anything until he regularly pursues you and invites you. Basically he isn't yours and you should remember that. It seems like you would want your dating to lead to a new relationship possibly, so do not do not do not have sex until you are exclusive. He could stay around for quite some time in order to get that. So have fun and if you can handle it have casual sex. But I know I cant so just be careful If you cant either.
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Permalink Reply by Argentille on
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Great plan. In any case I am up for more friends :D He would be hard pressed to get anything casual in regards to sex with me. I have to be dating for quite sometime before I give in.
Thanks for your input K, wise as always.
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Permalink Reply by cornflower on
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I wish you the best!! :)
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Permalink Reply by Argentille on
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Whoa, so I deleted his number. Stopped responding to him. He asked to come over tonight and apologized for not responding to me last night after I said something, forgot what it was. I responded to him but didn't really answer his request to come over. It seems like when I ignore him he's more prone to talk or respond to me. I'm shrugging it off. He won't get a spot in my phone until he makes the move and even then I doubt this relationship will be anything more than a friendship.
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Permalink Reply by NWchick on -
LOL, this sounds a little similar to my situation. I deleted his number but I'm sure I won't be hearing from him unless I contact him first...I guess we won't be talking then! I've known this man for 10 yrs though and I'm still friends with his family so I'm sure we'll see each other eventually I guess. Good luck!!
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